Despite the fact that many college freshman may be experiencing dorm life a little (or a lot) differently this year, move in day is right around the corner. I asked my college sophomore son for a list of the 5-10 must haves for the dorm... that we didn't think about until after he'd been living there for a couple of weeks. Things that we didn't know he needed, until he needed them, as they say.
We thought we'd save you some time and hassle, and give you a chance to learn from our mistakes!
BEDDING
Okay, you've probably thought of the basics... comforter, sheets, pillow... you may have even found a great "bed in a bag" like we did. But, when your kid's bed is directly under a large window, right up against the AC/heating vent, they need something a bit more substantial to keep them warm and give more coverage. Most freshman trade in their twin sized comforter for a queen or even a king, and my son says that having the queen size was one of the best purchases we made. MOM TIP: Double check the size of the bed... regular twin sheets won't fit an XL twin bed. You are welcome. :)
EXTENSION CORDS AND SURGE PROTECTORS
You never know how many outlets there will be in the dorm, or if they will be located where you need them to be. And surge protectors are a must to protect laptops and phones!
WIRELESS MOUSE
Even if your student is used to a laptop with a touchpad, they may find that they prefer to ease and quickness of a mouse for some classes. I ended up having to have one sent to my kid via Amazon because he was losing his mind with the touchpad.
HEADPHONES OR EAR BUDS
My son needed headphones that worked with his laptop, and surprisingly, not all of them do. The earbuds he had for his iPhone did not do the job. We had no idea!
TRASH BAGS
Listen, I'm not talking about recycled Target bags here (although a stash of those is helpful, too). I'm talking about the big black trash bags that you buy for the cans you set out on trash day. You would not believe how much trash teens generate, and when the dining hall offered only grab and go, it was even worse. Most dorms require that the residents deposit their trash into dumpsters, and that task will be much easier with the big bags. MOM TIP: Get the drawstring bags. Have you ever seen an 18 year old guy try to figure out how to tie the flaps on a trash bag? It's comical.
EXTRA PHONE CHARGER
My son left his charger at a friend's dorm and forgot it. And then that friend went home for the weekend. Need I say more?
COMMAND HOOKS
Find out what the walls are made of in the dorm, and what is permitted to be used to hang items on those walls. Hanging up flags (the preferred decor of most college guys these days) makes the dorm feel more like a home. Your college kid will not admit that this is important, but it is.
LAUNDRY SUPPLIES
Unless your freshman is taking advantage of the laundry service at school (yes, that's a thing), they will need laundry soap, dryer sheets, and something to collect and transport their clothes. Plus, get this... my son's school doesn't allow detergent pods. Thankfully, our awesome orientation leader gave us a heads up.
SECOND SET OF TOILETRIES
My son said that the toiletries that I started him off with ran out intermittently, which meant several trips to the store, or living without toothpaste for a few days (um, gross). He thought it would have been good to have a second stash to pull from so that he could make less trips to the store to restock.
TOILET PLUNGER
So, yeah, most universities DO NOT PROVIDE THIS. Talk about not needing something til you need it. Sidenote: The front desk most likely has a plunger that your student can check out. But, time is typically of the essence when a plunger is needed. Just sayin'.
MEDICINE
Create a first aid kit for your freshman that includes general things like ibuprofen, antibacterial ointment, hydrocortisone cream, and bandaids, but also the cold medicines they are used to, because inevitably, they WILL get a cold, and they will be super thankful that they have those meds to help them feel better without having to hunt them down. Even if they make fun of you when you give them said First Aid Kit. Or so I hear.
JUNK FOOD
Unless you want your kid to buy their cravings from the vending machine at $1+ a pop, give them a selection of their favorites to get them started. Most dining halls don't carry things like candy, gum, and savory snacks, and your kiddo will want them every once in awhile. Or on the daily. (Remind them to ration.)
When I asked my son to help me come up with a list of the must haves for dorm living, he insisted that I include a few "nice to haves" as well.
SPEAKER
Wireless is best, but a wired speaker will do if necessary. Speakers can be used to block out unwanted noise from roommates or neighbors, to provide entertainment, and will get you pumped up on those rare (but necessary) cleaning days.
LED STRIP LIGHTS
Sometimes the bright ceiling lights that are in most dorms just won't do. LED strip lights offer some additional (and fun) options. You can find them on Amazon in a variety of price ranges, but my son suggests getting the ones that stick to the wall.
COFFEE MAKER
Your child WILL struggle with getting to class on time, particularly if they take an early class like mine did (even though I STRONGLY suggested staying away from the 8am time slot). Having the option to fill a travel mug with coffee will save them time, money, and their sanity.
MOM TIPS:
- Pack stuff to take up to the dorms in Rubbermaid-style tubs. They stack up nicely and can be used for storing things like extra toilet paper, winter coats, and cleaning supplies.
- Bring some cash to stash in your college student's stuff. Believe me, they're going to need it, and it will be a fun surprise to let them know that you are thinking about them.
